by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac As Women’s History Month comes to a close, many of the stories we celebrate center on women who eventually broke barriers and led movements that shaped history. Their leadership became visible. Their influence became undeniable. Their names became part of the historical record. Yet what history often leaves out are the years that came before that recognition. Before their leadership was accepted, many of these women endured long seasons where their vo

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Leadership is often celebrated as strength, vision, and influence. When we think about leaders, we often picture the public achievements. The movements that were built. The institutions that were shaped. The communities that were guided through difficult seasons. But leadership has always carried a cost. And for many women throughout history, that cost has included grief. The grief behind women’s leadership is rarely discussed, yet it is present in th

by Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Healing is often described as something deeply personal. We imagine it as private work. Quiet reflection. Therapy sessions. Journaling. Moments when we sit with our emotions and try to make sense of what we have been carrying. But when we look closely at the lives of women, healing is rarely only personal. For many women, healing is connected to grief. And that grief is often layered. It may come from heartbreak, loss, disappointment, betrayal, or year

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Women’s history is often told through milestones. The right to vote. The right to work. The right to lead. These moments matter. They reflect courage and progress. But behind every milestone was a body adapting to survive the time before it. History did not only shape laws and institutions. It shaped nervous systems. It influenced how women learned to speak, how they learned to stay silent, how hard they felt they needed to work, and whether rest felt

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Black excellence is often celebrated with pride and applause. We see the degrees, the promotions, the leadership roles, the businesses, the platforms. We honor the grind. We repost the wins. We tell the story of overcoming. But rarely do we tell the full story. For many Black people, strength was never optional. It was a strategy. It was protection. It was survival. Strength meant learning early how to endure, how to adapt, how to outperform, and how

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Black History Month is filled with brilliance. We celebrate innovation. We honor leaders. We amplify culture, creativity, faith, endurance, and excellence. And we should. There is glory in our story. But history is not only made of milestones. It is also made of moments that never received acknowledgment. Behind the victories were losses. Behind the achievements were pressures. Behind the public triumphs were private sorrows. This is the part of histo

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac After loss, love rarely returns the way it once existed. It does not usually arrive with excitement or certainty. More often, it shows up quietly. As curiosity mixed with hesitation. As longing paired with fear. As a desire for connection that is tempered by memory. Many people find themselves wondering if they are capable of loving again, or if grief has permanently changed them. The truth is not that love disappears after loss. It is that love becom

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac February holds layered meaning. It is Heart Awareness Month, a time when conversations turn toward cardiovascular health, prevention, and risk. It is also Black History Month, a season of remembrance, reflection, and truth-telling. Together, these observances invite a deeper conversation about the heart, one that goes beyond statistics and into lived experience. For African American women, heart health cannot be separated from grief. Heart disease is

by: Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Grief has a way of changing more than we expect. Most people prepare for the pain of loss itself. What often catches us off guard is how grief quietly rearranges our relationships. Friendships that once felt steady begin to feel distant. People who used to check in stop calling. Conversations feel strained or awkward, even when no one has done anything wrong. If your friend circle looks different since your loss, you are not imagining it. Grief change

by Rev. Dr. Tammy Isaac Grief is often described as sadness, longing, or heartbreak. What is talked about far less is anger. Not the kind of anger that is loud or explosive, but the kind that settles quietly in the body. Anger that shows up as disappointment. Frustration. Distance. Silence. Questions that feel unsafe to speak out loud. For many people, grief does not only disrupt daily life. It disrupts trust. Trust in God. Trust in faith communities. Trust in institutions th

by: Dr. Tammy Isaac After loss, many people expect grief to feel overwhelming. They expect tears, heaviness, or a constant ache that confirms something important has been lost. But for some, grief feels like nothing at all. Instead of sadness, there is numbness. Instead of emotion, there is distance. Days move forward, responsibilities get done, and life continues, yet internally everything feels flat or muted. This experience often brings confusion and self doubt. People beg

Listening to what rises between reflection and moving forward by: Dr. Tammy Isaac As a year comes to an end, grief often finds its voice. Not because something new has happened, but because endings create space for remembering. When the pace slows and the calendar thins out, what has been carried quietly all year begins to surface. Grief speaks in this space not to demand answers, but to be acknowledged. This moment between years is not about closing chapters neatly or rushin

By Dr. Tammy Isaac | Breathe Grief Blog – November 2025 The holidays are often painted as a season of joy, laughter, and togetherness a time when families gather, tables overflow, and gratitude fills the air. But for those who are grieving, Thanksgiving can feel like a collision of opposites: gratitude and grief sitting side by side, each demanding space in the same heart. The truth is that grief doesn’t take a holiday. The ache of absence can be louder when the world feels c

By Dr. Tammy Isaac The earliest death I can remember is the death of my grandmother, Disney James. I don’t remember how old I was, only that I was under twelve. I had never met her, and I’m not even sure I fully understood what a grandmother was at that age. What I did know was that she was someone my mother loved deeply, and that made me want to know her too. My family are immigrants from the West Indies, and my twin brother and I were the only two American-born children. My

Each October, we are surrounded by pink, a color now synonymous with hope, awareness, and survivorship. The pink ribbon waves proudly across social media, workplace campaigns, and community events. Yet behind every ribbon is a story, and behind many of those stories lies a grief that few acknowledge. While we celebrate those who survived breast cancer, there is another quiet truth we cannot ignore. Some are still fighting, some are struggling with life after treatment, and so

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by: Dr. Tammy Isaac When a fire erupts, a car crashes, or violence shakes a community, most of us instinctively step back. But there is a...